That guy

Can time really heal all wounds? I was once told that time is a key aspect in making a relationship work and if it was off, then it will just end abruptly.  This is true.  Especially, when you blind yourself from the truth that is staring you right in the face and everyday you keep denying the obvious that it's over.  The relationship, that no matter if it lasted years, weeks or months, no matter if it was a summer romance, or a happy new year beginning, if it was a blind date that your best friend set you up with or if it was by chance or even planned, it can end abruptly.  When it does, all this questions arise as if you didn't know why your relationship ended. Women are not stupid.  We are just sensitive and to heartfelt to accept the reality that either the guy has someone else or you just settled for a cheap guy.  When I mean cheap, I don't necessarily mean money cheap! I mean guys that are immature.  I am talking about guys that lovey dovie us into a romance that we neglect to remind ourselves that in reality, if you don't keep a clear head on your shoulders, either you will fall flat on your face or over your heels in "love".  Let me tell you: "that is not real love!"  It is hormones, it is pleasure, it is an opportunity to live a life you wouldn't dare to before him or that you just wanted to escape from your real life and this new "true love" guy will just give you that new chance at life you were seeking.  When he gives you "that" look, or give you "that" complement, or just touches you like you never have been touch (and I am not talking about sex yet), then you think you are really something special that just arose in his life and not only is he changing your life but you are changing his.  Oh yes! The change is just to ruin that chance you got for once to live a life you wouldn't have dared before him and now, after you gave him everything, what does he do?  He just says: "See ya".  You know what your going to do now? You are going to go and cry to your ex-boyfriend because that is all you have and you will settle for what you got because you feel or think you can't do better.  That is sooo unrealistic as well.  You know why? Because we are all immature at some point but that doesn't mean we need to go around and feel sorry for one another or be a bitch! Actually, you can be a bitch because if the guy decides to be an inconsiderate hurtful asshole than yes, be a bitch!  Guys like that tend to come back with their tails between their legs trying to get your attention again (it happened to me and it becomes annoying because you then ask yourself: "was I drunk during the whole relationship?") and your ex-boyfriend you went back to your gonna realize that your just living a vicious circle with him and their is a good reason the prefix ex is there so get a clue! Sooner or later (and I know most of us hopes is sooner) that guy you should of waited for, you know that prince charming that you dream about?  Let me tell you, he doesn't exist! What will come is even better! Is That guy that no matter where you are or what hour of the day it is, will be restless if he hasn't heard your voice, if he doesn't know your happy or well. That guy that no matter if you do get pissed at him, he will manage to make you smile and laugh.  No matter how many times you have kissed, it still feels like the first time.  No matter how many guys desire you, you don't have eyes for any other but That one guy that stole your heart, is on your mind and makes you feel like you can do anything.  That guy that even though your having a bad day, your tired, lonesome, far away, unhappy, stressed, red wings, pissed, in a hurry, just woken up in the morning, sleepy, forgetful or just clueless, he will sweep you off your feet, hold you tight, tell you he loves you and your all he needs....and then you realize that all you lived before was worth it as long as you have That guy in your life with you know and forever.